Last week, I shared how a simple morning devotional helps me start each day on a positive note with my teens and tweens. In this message, I want to tell you a little more about how I came up with the routine we use today.
As a younger parent, I wasn’t sure how to create a meaningful morning ritual with my family. At first, I tried using a devo format and resources that other people and authority figures had recommended. I found myself reading the books I “should” read to my kids and creating the disciplinarian vibe I “should” create to raise them responsibly.
The result was a mediocre ritual that was not very enjoyable for any of us.
When I realized this, I started experimenting with new resources and routines. Every time I tried something new, I simply asked whether it created an environment in which my kids felt more safe, inspired, and valued—and whether it was really enjoyable for all of us.
In the process, I found out that the key is to build my family rituals around things my family actually values, rather than only taking cues from outside sources.
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In my family, we value well-being, connection, adventure, and growth. As soon as I began planning our morning devos around these values instead of external “shoulds,” things started to click for all of us.
In my next message, I’ll share a few final thoughts about designing a family morning devo and a list of the books my family has enjoyed during ours.
Here’s to building family rituals that resonate with our teens and tweens,
President, Williamsburg Learning